Hi Guys,
Sorry for the long delay in
writing this blog :) :) I was planning to
write this blog from June but unable to do because of busy schedule and you
guys know how lazy I am: P: P :) from January I haven’t wrote any blog or even read much!!!!! Coming to the
point, I got married on June. My dad searched for a Girl and I married the Girl
who was the first one I saw and without hesitation I decided to plan my life
with her :)
FIRST INSTANCE
I was the mentor of some of
the Campus Minds and I was accompanying them for a lunch + beach trip on
February 9th. We went to Rainforest and from there to Besant Nagar
Beach and started playing football and enjoying the sea. We thoroughly enjoyed
the day out. At about 8PM I got a call from a person called Vaithee and I gave
my father’s number to him.
I reached the home by 9.30PM on that day. My father
told me that I have a got a match and horoscope is matching. Also he said we
are going on 12th to see the Girl. Girl name is Sahana. Then I got
hesitated because I haven’t seen the Girl and I told my dad that we are not
going until I see the Girl. I also told that they should see my photo before
seeing in person, I am a firm believer that we shouldn’t hurt anyone while
seeing them. So I was very careful in my words, first we need to check our
photos and like and then only we need to see in person.
Then
there was a fight between me and my dad and at last we postponed our visit to
February 19th. Then I slept nicely on that day and went to office
next day.
FIRST CALL
February 12th was my
friend’s (Baskar) Marriage and so I and my friend sati wanted to buy a gift for
him on Feb 11th. At 8.30 PM I got a call from unknown number.
UNK (Sahana): Hello!!
Me: Hello. Who is this?
UNK (Sahana): I am Sahana. Is this Ravi?
Me: Yes I am Ravi. Which Sahana?
UNK (Sahana): How many Sahana you know?
Me: Oh You are the girl who my dad said. Sorry. Tell me…….
Sahana: I just now got the number from your dad. You are
unable to remember the name. I just want to speak to you and get how you speak
and for that only I called you :) :)
Me: Is it so? Then where did you study…..
Then usual conversations proceeded and we spoke for about 20
Minutes. This is the first time I have spoken to a girl with some authority and
my friend was waiting for me in another room. I was blushing all the way and I
told my friend about the happenings in my life. He started to bully me and told
to close friends once we came out. We bought the gift and came back. The I
started to message my beloved (Now not at that time: P: P) with some nice
forwards and some inept msg’s in between too :) :)
On
Sunday I went to attend marriage and came back and same messaging pattern
followed. She finished of her 100 msg per day in 2 hours and started to message
me from her brother’s and mom’s cell. So it went on like that for the week.
FIRST PROPOSAL
The week followed had the Valentine’s
Day and I proposed her for the first time :) :) also this was my first
proposal in my life time :) :)Its
Trueeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We messaged in till the wee hours of the morning and
it was blissful :) :) I enjoyed thoroughly
the way the life was turning out. It was the best thing that happened to me
after my mom’s demise… We bought got gift
for both for the D-day of my life.
February
19th – I along with my family went to her home for seeing her. She
was very nervous on that day and I was normal :) :) . The time was small
and they asked us whether both liked each other and we liked. Then all of them
were involved in some random talks and we were told to go to separate place and
discuss.
I gave
her an anklet as a gift which I bought in my friend (Susil) shop... She gifted
me a Kaadai (Kaapu like thing). We started discussing and talked for about 15
minutes about our life. I mostly talked about my friends and how I wanted to
have her in my life. She too talked in a manner which a matured girl will be
thinking. I was happy to have a girl who thinks smartly to be my wife. I forgot
to mention…. She was looking like my mom from sideways which was the first
thing I noticed when I saw her photo :) :)
ENGAGEMENT
We had our House warming
Function on March 4th and so we planned to club our Engagement with
the House warming. So my engagement was planned on March 4th. The
day where I lose my Single status and went into committed status in FB :) :) also in life!!!!!
. The Engagement was done in a simpler
way and all the relatives came and wished us good luck. My friends made it a
memorable day with their chat for almost an hour :).
After
engagement, the calling hours increased and messaging was done at will… She
will be having 7PM to 5AM shift and I will be getting up by 5 in the morning
and call her:) :). I haven’t remembered
me getting up at 5AM even for the exams :) :). It was a blissful
period I had in my life:) :). She had once said she
likes surprises. I wanted to surprise her with some surprises which she will
not be able to guess :) :). Marriage date was
fixed as June 14th.
FIRST FILM
I
booked 2 tickets for a film called OKOK and we were about to take invites for
our wedding on that day. I took her in my bike and went for a ride and went
straight to satyam. She was astonished and angry on me. She was surprised but
as girls do they don’t want to show their willingness she showed her anger on
me :) :) the eyes threw fire.
But due to AC inside I got spared a bit and film was also a light hearted
comedy and I escaped the fury in the theatre :) :) .Then after the film
ended we went to check invites, but to my bad luck I didn’t found anything good
in parrys and I travelled about 40kms in bike to get a card :). But the cards were
good and awesome:).
So we had a good time in spite of me having to have some dosage of anger fury :) :)
Then
the days become shorter and we were talking as much as we can, since she will
not be able to use her mobile inside her office:( :(. But the calls and
messages increased the bonding much so that we can understand each other with
some occasional fights:) :). Fights are nice in
that time as we can understand and get to know each other’s limit:). We also went to a film “Vazhakku Enn 18/9” to
Satyam on Month of May.
MARRIAGE DAY
June 14th – The
D-Day on which I lost my Marital Status from Single to Married :) :). As a Brahmin, we will
be having the marriage for 3 days. Starting with the Vridham on the 1st
day morning, Reception at the evening, Marriage on the next day Morning,
Nalangu at Evening and the next day morning leaving for the respective home:) :). My home got a woman
who can handle the care and affection of our house, after my mom and there she
came, My Sahana!!!!! To my home on the June 15th.
We went Honeymoon to North India, Covering Places as Shimla,
Manali and Chandigarh.
I shall com with a
blog of my trip to Himalayan Mountains in my next blog :) :)
