Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Expectation Always Hurts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Expectation Always Hurts… Isn’t it? Life starts with expectation. Our parents and teachers expect us to do well in studies and we expect some good things to happen. If it happens we tend to enjoy and if it is not we will be disappointed. I just want to know why we are expecting the things to happen. Is it our fault or the normal thing happening in this?

In our young age all the guys will be sharing the news with us without any hesitation. But as you older security comes in the eyes of the fellows who tend to be an open book, Many won’t tend to tell even their important news like promotion and other stuffs. It will be real tests of character in bring yourselves to cheerful mien when you know you are being betrayed. The people with whom you have spent countless number of hours are not reporting you even their important news in their life. What transpired this sudden change of attitude? Is it the Selfishness on their part or the insecurity they face seeing a competition?

The Real shame is that we are the persons whom they will be seeing when they are in need. The friend in need is a friend indeed. The Sharing of good news should bring happiness around the group. Nowadays the culture is like keeping it secret becomes a fashion. The insecurity that lingers in their minds translated into action. Why is this happening??

Expecting something from someone is the root cause for all this unhappiness. Why to expect someone whom you don’t know fully? I know we can find reasons and come with a rule guide that we should follow these steps for not getting disappointed. Life is not about following the rules and enjoy. It is about breaking the rules and getting your emotions visible to others. But to be frank the world s becoming so much unhealthy as insecurity resides in the minds of individuals. They tend to make the friends insecure and unhealthy cooperation between the people in a team. If you are letting out your good things to friends then how can you build a good relation? The insecurity prevailing in their mind will be like a crack on a glass. The Glass can’t be saved and hence the relation too.

The persons who are like open book are the water inside the cracked glass. Please try to come out before the glass is broken, So that they are not wasted. To be frank please get a person’s mentality before hand and expect from them. Then share your thoughts, rather than getting used to hurting. The closeness to acquaintances makes us to expect from them. So beware before being close to them.

For a Safe Life ahead, Please don’t expect anything from anyone at anytime. Try to live a life carefree and also expectation free to avoid any ill happenings in the future.

Expectation Always Hurts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

1 comment:

  1. Try not to get surprised at any development...tough to do, but easy to try :)

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